But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions remain anonymous. What are some fun, unusual sex positions we could try? He's pretty strong too, and I want to take advantage of it.
A: Thanks for the question! Trying out new positions is one of the most fun aspects of sex, and being flexible certainly does open up a whole new world of possibilities. Here are seven great positions for people who have been putting in some extra time at the gym. Note: these positions have been depicted and described here using a man and a woman, but two women could certainly enjoy all of these positions using a strap-on.
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How to do it: Start off in Missionary. Prop up your knees so your feet are resting on the bed. Have your guy slowly start to sit up and raise up on his knees. Raise your hips up into bridge pose so he stays inside of you. He can also help by holding on under your hips. Slowly raise one leg up and rest it on his shoulder, then repeat with your other leg. Depending on your height differences, you can inch your ankles further up his shoulders, or he can use his hands to raise your pelvis up higher.
From there, you hang on for the ride while he pushes in and out of you. Having your legs together will create an enticingly full feeling. You can squeeze a hand between your thighs for some additional clitoral stimulation. How to do it: Have him sit down with his arms propped behind him. Slowly lower yourself onto him, straddling his hips. Lean back so that your weight is resting on your hands.
One at a time, pull your legs up to rest on his shoulders. You can use your ankles for some extra leverage. Having your legs close together can make for a nice tight fit. Both of you will get a super hot view of him sliding in and out of you. How to do it: Have him sit up. Lower yourself onto him, putting one knee on either side of his body. Slowly start to lean backwards into a backbend. You can have him hold your hips to guide your movement. You can lay on your upper back, or prop yourself up on your forearms.
